Ok, one last little bit of hard-earned wisdom about the power of laughter in the parent-adult child system, especially around the volatile holiday season.
One Christmas I ruined everything by trying too hard.
WAY too hard ...
My daughter was bringing home a new boyfriend.
My brother and his family were coming for Christmas Eve dinner.
I - in my own mind - was going to crush it.
I was going to do all the traditions, have a great tree, cook a superb meal, make everyone feel welcome, have a few little surprises for my nieces who are Jewish, get just the perfect gifts, blah, blah, blah ... you know the drill.
Whole dang thing went south on me because no one - especially my adult husband and my 3 adult kids - didn't cooperate with all my ridiculousness. How dare they?
So I spent the bulk of Christmas Eve in bed weeping, pretending I had the flu, while my entire family laughed and celebrated at my dining room table.
The next year I came up with a new plan - This would be the year mom swore a little. (Or, a lot depending on the circumstances.)
This created all kinds of fun for everyone involved.
A well-placed, polite little swear-bomb can sure lighten the mood, people.
Especially when young adult kids push back on all our best-laid plans.
Happiest. Christmas. Ever.
Now, I know the Bible discourages coarse language. I get it.
But what do you think is worse?
A cry-baby mom in her bed thinking bad thoughts about her family on the eve of our Lord's birth ...
or a nicely placed little cuss word?
Laughter - it works every time.