I often hear the argument, "I am not the kind of person who engages in spiritual practices," or "I am too busy engaging in ministry and serving others for things like prayer, reflection on Scripture or prayers of examen."
I sympathize with these arguments and I struggle with them as well.
However, I still argue that all of us, no matter our personality, need to include specific activities in our lives that allow God access to our hearts, that allow space and time for our souls to "come out," and that give our relationship with God more than mere "lip-service."
The Catholic writer and mystic, Thomas Merton, said: "He [or she] who attempts to act and do things for others and for the world without deepening his [or her] own self-understanding, freedom, integrity and capacity for love [through the quieter spiritual practices], will not have anything to give to others."
Don't we intuitively know this is true?
When I engage in intense seasons of ministry without creating space for rest and reconnection with God, my service to others often ends up being no service at all. Especially to those poor people I am trying to serve.
Perhaps this is why, after a period of intense engagement with the world, Jesus would often say to his disciples, "Come away with me and rest awhile ..."
Simon Chan, in his book Spiritual Theology, puts words to this: "A comprehensive spirituality stresses a balanced approach to the cultivation of the spiritual life. It recognizes that true spiritual growth consists of rightly balanced opposing acts."
Even the extrovert must make time for silence, solitude, reflection on Scripture.
Even the introvert must get up from the desk to serve and speak and engage others.
Is your spiritual life "rightly balanced?"